Tuesday, 19 June 2012

ATTACHMENT A: PROJECT DESCRIPTION
Introduction
Rape has become an epidemic in Nigeria lately. Across the six-geopolitical zones, newspapers are full of reports of numerous cases of rape, especially of minors, teenagers and elderly women. The trend has reached an alarming rate, as Women and girls continue to be molested and raped. Survivors are frustrated, families are ashamed, and police officers that ought to enforce the law are fast competing for the prize of the worst rapists of the year, as recent reported cases have revealed. As such this presentation  will examines the concepts of rape, types of rape, causes of rape, effect of rape on the victims, rape cases in the media and the way forward. The paper will conclude by recommending the ways the of the media can use in curbing the act.
                                                   
CONCEPT OF RAPE
Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse, which is initiated by one or more persons against another person without that person's consent. A person who commits an act of rape is known as a rapist. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority or with a person who is incapable of valid consent.
The definition of rape varies both in different parts of the world and at different times in history. It is defined in many jurisdictions as sexual intercourse, or other forms of sexual penetration, of one person by another person without the consent of the victim.
Susan Brownmiller in her book Against Our Will: Men, Women and described rape as
"a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear.
 The United Nations defines it as
"sexual intercourse without valid consent,"
The World Health Organization defined it in 2002 as
"physically forced or otherwise coerced penetration – even if slight – of the vulva or anus, using a penis, other body parts or an object".
In 2012, the FBI changed their definition from
"The carnal knowledge of a female forcibly and against her will." to "The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim."
for their annual Uniform Crime Reports. The definition, which had remained unchanged since 1927, was considered outdated and narrow. The updated definition includes
any gender of victim and perpetrator, not just women being raped by men, recognizes that rape with an object can be as traumatic as penile/vaginal rape, includes instances in which the victim is unable to give consent because of temporary or permanent mental or physical incapacity, and recognizes that a victim can be incapacitated and thus unable to consent because of ingestion of drugs or alcohol..
Some countries such as Germany are now using more inclusive definitions which do not require penetration and the 1998 International Criminal Tribunal for Rwanda defines it as
"a physical invasion of a sexual nature committed on a person under circumstances which are coercive".
In some jurisdictions, the term "rape" has been phased out of legal use in favor of terms such as "sexual assault" or "criminal sexual conduct".
Other countries or jurisdictions continue to define rape to cover only acts involving penile penetration of the vagina, treating all other types of non-consensual sexual activity as sexual assault.
Scotland, for instance, requires that a rapist commit a sexual assault with a penis, so only males can legally be rapists.
One thing all the definition above have in common is the issue of lack of “consent” .In any allegation of rape, the absence of consent to sexual intercourse on the part of the victim is critical. Consent need not be expressed, and may be implied from the context and from the relationship of the parties, but the absence of objection does not of itself constitute consent. Lack of consent may result from either forcible compulsion by the perpetrator or an incapacity to consent on the part of the victim (such as persons who are asleep, intoxicated or otherwise mentally helpless). The law can also invalidate consent in the case of sexual intercourse with a person below the age at which they can legally consent to such relations with older persons. Such cases are sometimes called statutory rape or "unlawful sexual intercourse", regardless of whether it was consensual or not, as people who are under a certain age in relation to the perpetrator are deemed legally incapable of consenting to sex. Consent can always be withdrawn at any time, so that any further sexual activity after the withdrawal of consent constitutes rape.
TYPES OF RAPE
There are several types of rape, generally categorized by reference to the situation in which it occurs, the sex or characteristics of the victim or the sex or characteristics of the perpetrator.

·         Anger rape                                            

The aim of this rapist is to humiliate, debase and hurt their victim; they express their contempt for their victim through physical violence and profane language. For these rapists, sex is a weapon to defile and degrade the victim, rape constitutes the ultimate expression of their anger. This rapist considers rape the ultimate offense they can commit against the victim.
Anger rape is characterized by physical brutality, much more physical force is used during the assault than would be necessary if the intent were simply to overpower the victim and achieve penetration. This type of offender attacks their victim by grabbing, striking and knocking the victim to the ground, beating them, tearing their clothes, and raping them.

·         Power rape

For these rapists, rape becomes a way to compensate for their underlying feelings of inadequacy and feeds their issues of mastery, control, strength, authority and capability. The intent of the power rapist is to assert their competency. The power rapist relies upon verbal threats, intimidation with a weapon, and only uses the amount of force necessary to subdue the victim.
The power rapists tends to have fantasies about sexual conquests and rape. They may believe that even though the victim initially resists them, that once they overpower their victim, the victim will eventually enjoy the rape. The rapist needs to believe that the victim enjoyed what was done to them, and they may even ask the victim to meet them for a date later.
Because this is only a fantasy, the rapist does not feel reassured for long by either their own performance or the victim's response. The rapist feels that they must find another victim, convinced that this victim will be "the right one".
Hence, their offenses may become repetitive and compulsive. They may commit a series of rapes over a short period of time.

·         Sadistic rape

For these rapists, they have a sexual association with anger and power so that aggression and the infliction of pain itself is eroticized. For this rapist, sexual excitement is associated with the inflicting of pain upon his victim. The offender finds the intentional maltreatment of his victim intensely gratifying and takes pleasure in the victim's torment, anguish, distress, helplessness, and suffering; he/she finds the victim's struggling with him/her to be an erotic experience.
Sadistic rape usually involves extensive, prolonged torture and restraint. Sometimes it can take on ritualistic or other bizarre qualities. The rapist may use some type of instrument or foreign object to penetrate his/her victim. Sexual areas of the victim's body become a specific focus of injury or abuse.
The sadistic rapist's assaults are deliberate, calculated and preplanned. They will often wear a disguise or will blindfold their victims. Prostitutes or other people whom they perceive to be "promiscuous" are often the sadistic rapist's targets. The victims of a sadistic rapist may not survive the attack. For some offenders, the ultimate satisfaction is gained from murdering the victim.

·         Gang rape

Some forms of sexual violence, such as gang rape, are predominantly committed by young men. Sexual aggression is often a defining characteristic of manhood in the group and is significantly related to the wish to be held in high esteem. Sexually aggressive behaviour among young men has been linked with gang membership and having delinquent peers. Gang rape is often viewed by the men involved, and sometimes by others too, as legitimate, in that it is seen to discourage or punish perceived immoral behaviour among women, such as wearing short skirts or frequenting bars.

 CAUSES OF RAPE

There is no single theory that conclusively explains the motivation for rape; the motives of rapists can be multi-factorial and are subject to debate. Several factors have been proposed: anger, a desire for power and sadism. Rape does not necessarily have a single cause, and causes may be localized based on other social aspects of culture.
According to the President of Gender Alliance, Mrs. Adenike Atoyebi,  in the vanguard newspaper publication On April 18, 2012 she stated that
“Yes, we have lived with rape since the beginning of our existence, but the manner in which it is happening in Nigeria now, is worrisome. But I have to put this sudden surge on the socio-economic situation in the country, which has left many jobless and hungry. But for idleness, what would make someone to rape a three year old girl or a 60-year old widow?”
Speaking on reason for rape, she further stated that:
Atoyebi was, however, quick to add “I think there’s no particular reason for rape. I consider it an act of immorality and madness. I once heard a story about a teenager who was raped on her way home. The offender said he had simply acted on his impulse, claiming he aroused by the girl’s dress sense.”
In her own view, the  Executive Director of Women Arise (WA), Dr. Josephine said:
“Impunity is on the rise because of our inability to bring the perpetrators to book. Rape and sexual violence have become a regular occurrence, a norm in Nigeria. Women don’t think they will be believed. So, they won’t openly give their side of the story.”

She further stated that:
Failure of Child Rights Act: She said it is worrisome that despite the passage of the Child Rights Act, incidences of rape and assault on the girl child is still prevalent in the country. She added that it is unfortunate that 18 states are yet to pass the Act, noting: “According to recent reports, more than 20 girls are raped and daily subjected to other forms of violence. It is also observed there is no equal access to education for girls and boys, everything works against girl’s education and there is no intervention to encourage access to education.”.
Speaking about the situation of rape Mrs. Jumoke Adenowo, founder of Awesome Treasures Foundation, (ATF). Disclosing her disgust for the rising rape incidences to VF, she observed:
“We are not secure in a country where a young girl is bathed with acid for daring to say “No” to a man’s advances and the government does not see the crime for what it is – a crime against the state, and the perpetrator walks free as the victim lives in daily mental and physical anguish.
“It’s worse than slavery! No woman, no matter how personally comfortable, should be apathetic about such outrageous incidents. What happens to one sister can happen to any. So in essence, we are being told that even our bodies do not belong to us and random “admirers” can lay claim to our bodies?”
Rape of women and girls endemic in Nigeria: Deploring the manner in which rape victims act unchallenged, she said: “They can even upload their crimes on Youtube while the victim is told by law enforcement officials: “You caused it!” This is the worst sort of human rights abuse possible. No matter how many females we have in leadership positions today, the fundamental problems of the Naigerian female are yet to be addressed. Nigerian women are not even safe.”
Susan Brownmiller in her book Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape  which is widely credited with changing public outlooks and attitudes about rape, promoted the concept that rape was not the victim's fault. As some authors made people beliefe, she described rape as "a conscious process of intimidation by which all men keep all women in a state of fear.” She believes that "rape is a crime not of lust, but of violence and power." She sought to examine general belief systems that women who were raped deserved it in other to change people perception on the issue .
RAPE CASES
On April 18, 2012 the punch newspaper reported that
Three men, Laide Sulemon, 26; Aina Samson, 24; and Ayomide Simpa, 25, were on Tuesday arraigned before an Apapa Chief Magistrate’s Court in Lagos for allegedly raping a 27-year-old woman.
an Arabic teacher in Ibadan, recently raped a 15 year old student for not passing her exams. Siaka Salimonu, 43, who teaches Arabic, allegedly promised to give Yetunde holy oil for prayers to improve her academic performance, and raped her when she came for the oil. Salimonu is also an Imam and regularly conducts Friday Jumat prayers in the local mosque.
As it is in Lagos, Port Harcourt, Ibadan,  so is it at Gombe, where a water vendor, Ahmed Manu, 22, of Tudun Wada quarters, Gombe, was recently remanded in prison custody for allegedly raping a 26-year-old mentally deranged woman. The principal judge of the court, Malam Mohammed Usman, gave the order when the accused pleaded not guilty to the charge.
The complainant, Malam Mohammed Hassan, who is a traditional herbalist, told the court that the accused person had on February 24, raped one of his patients who was being treated for mental problem. He said the accused person was involved in hawking water during the dry season and had supplied water to the home.
Another pathetic incident of rape recently was that of a 16-year old girl, who was raped by three police men.
Policemen jailed for raping 16-year-old girl: The policemen were subsequently convicted and sentenced by  Kano State High Court  for abduction, conspiracy and rape.
The policemen were former Insp. Dantalle Muhammed, who was convicted on three counts of abduction, conspiracy and rape and sentenced to 10 years imprisonment in addition to a fine of N100,000 for rape. He was also sentenced to eight years in prison for abduction with a fine of N50,000 and six years in prison with a fine of N50,000 for conspiracy.
The other convict,  former Insp. Yusuf Ibrahim, was sentenced to 14 years with a fine of N200,000 for abduction,  eight years and a fine of N100,000 for conspiracy and  six years with a fine of N50,000 for rape. The third convict, Mahmuda Muhammad, was sentenced to seven years imprisonment for rape.

WAY FORWARD
Speaking on the way forward, Atoyebi said
“there are laws that needs to be reviewed urgently, so that it would serve as a deterent to rapists and would be rapists. You could remember that it was because of the spate of rape that made the Federal Government to constitute a Committee on the Review of Discriminatory Laws Against Women, which operated under the auspices of the National Human Rights Commission with a mandate to review discriminatory legislation, including rape.
“There are also the penal code, criminal code and the sharia law,” she stated, adding that, “What I am saying in essence is for these laws to be review, to meet up the rising rape cases, because the crime is taking another dimension lately.”
Still harping on the way out of the malaise, she said: “Some of these laws are most times outdated, and not enforced, so you find people perpetrating  the crime because they know they would not feel the full weight of the law. If the current rate of this madness must be curtailed, government must wake up to its responsibilities.”
On the way forward, an Amnesty International report titled Nigeria: Rape – The Silent Weapon. It observed that
“rape of women and girls by both the police and security forces, and within their homes and community, is acknowledged to be endemic in Nigeria – not only by human rights defenders but also by some government officials at both federal and state levels.
The government, however, is failing in its obligation to exercise due diligence: The perpetrators invariably escape punishment, and women and girls who have been raped are denied any form of redress for the serious crimes against them”.
It also stated that:
“Government’s response has been, and continues to be, woefully inadequate. Rape is a crime under Nigerian national law and is an internationally recognized human rights violation. Despite this, the government is failing in both its national and international obligations to prevent, investigate and prosecute rape, whether committed by state actors or non-state actors, and to provide any reparations to the victims.
Further, Amnesty International has discovered that
the Nigerian government has failed in its international obligations to take action against agents of the state who have committed rape and sexual abuse, and has failed to amend discriminatory legislation that guarantees impunity from charges of rape.”
 The report then agitate for
Urgent review of laws: Regardless of this indictment, further investigations revealed that for these rising incidences of rape to be curtailed, government should as a matter of urgency, review  laws on rape, control the use of hard drugs and the rampant.
 In her own contribution, the wife of the Osun state governor Mrs. Sherifat Aregbesola, after a campaign to create awareness for women to support the eradication of rape in the state. said
“ the administration had intensified effort in sensitising its citizens on rape, which had become so rampant in the society.
She noted that dozens of ladies across the country had been raped, a situation which had turned many of them to prostitutes in Nigeria and abroad. With an appealed to parents to always monitor their children and support the state government to achieve its goal of eradicating rape in the state.
 she equally advised mothers to desist from sending their female children to hawk at night, stressing that evil perpetrators operated mainly at night. Stating that
“Parents should only allow their children to hawk in public places and during the day for girls to be free from evil rapists,’’ she added.
On the way forward, the Osun state Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Welfare, Mrs. Mofolake Adegboyega
urged the men to go for marriage when they were due rather than raping girls around the corner and advised the girls to avoid indecent dresses and lead a worthy life.
Conclusion
Considering the increase in the number of rape cases reported daily, one will realize that the criminal act is on the increase, although the media have been trying their best in reportage of rape cases, they still have  a long way to go in performing their watchdog and social responsibility roles. There is the need to constantly enlighten the public on ways of preventing the criminal act which has eaten deep into the fiber of the society.
The need for them to encourage rape victims to report cases and work towards putting an end to the stigmatizations the victims experienced in the society.








REFERENCES
Ø  Leadership newspaper  march 8,2012
Ø  Punch newspaper April 20, 2012
Ø  Punch newspaper 23rd May, 2012
Ø  Susan Brownmiller(1986) Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape. Pelican Books, United States of America.
Ø  Vanguard newspaper April 18, 2012ape
Ø  Wikipedia ”rape”  www.wikipedia.org/wiki/rape
Ø  Wikipedia ”types of rape”  www.wikipedia.org/wiki/typesofrape



Wednesday, 7 December 2011

STRESS MANANGMENT STRESS MANANGMENT STRESS MANANGMENT STRESS MANAGEMENT

It may seem that there’s nothing you can do about your stress level. The bills aren’t going to stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day for all your errands, and your career or family responsibilities will always be demanding. But you have a lot more control than you might think. In fact, the simple realization that you’re in control of your life is the foundation of stress management
Whether you live in a city or the rural area, work in an office or a school class-room, live comfortably or struggle to make ends meet, stress is a reality that  is increasingly affecting people’s live negatively
Most of us experienced stress due to our modern lifestyle. Stress can weaken our immune system and may result in getting cancer. To boost our immunity is to maintain a balance in our system. The proper balance in our body is a vital factor in our health and wellness. And the proper way to maintain that balance is through good nutrition and right diet.
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Managing stress is all about taking charge: taking charge of your thoughts, your emotions, your schedule, your environment, and the way you deal with problems. The ultimate goal is a balanced life, with time for work, relationships, relaxation, and fun  plus the resilience to hold up under pressure and meet challenges head on.
Stress management is the amelioration of stress and especially chronic stress often for the purpose of improving everyday functioning.
Stress produces numerous symptoms which vary according to persons, situations, and severity. These can include physical health decline as well as depression.
The process of stress management is one of the keys to a happy and successful life in modern society. Although life provides numerous demands that can prove difficult to handle, stress management is the best way to manage anxiety and maintain overall well-being.
Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life. This isn’t as easy as it sounds. Your true sources of stress aren’t always obvious, and it’s all too easy to overlook your own stress-inducing thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. You may know that you’re constantly worried about work deadlines. But maybe it’s your procrastination, rather than the actual job demands, that leads to deadline stress.
To identify your true sources of stress, look closely at your habits, attitude, and excuses:
•      Do you explain away stress as temporary,  even though you can’t remember the last time you took a breather?
•      Do you define stress as an integral part of your work or home life  or as a part of your personality?
•      Do you blame your stress on other people or outside events, or view it as entirely normal and unexceptional?
Until you accept responsibility for the role you play in creating or maintaining it, your stress level will remain outside your control.
how then do we manage stress
 Adequate Sleep,  humans need sleep not less than seven (7) hours a day. These will help to rejuvenate damage cells. Sleep is a one way to rebuild, repair and restore our body to boost our energy level for optimal function on the following day.
 Good Exercise , these will help us to strengthen our muscles, make us physically fit, improves mental health, improved our physical skills, promotes positive energy, promotes mental alertness, prevent depression, boost our immune system that help us to keep away from killer diseases. Exercise can really do many good things to our body to fight free radicals.
 Proper Diet – this is the foundation of having a good health. Healthy eating also can give us more energy, reduces of chances on getting diseases and improve mental function. Proper diet will lead us to a healthy life and healthy looking.
 Natural Food Supplement – Nowadays, everything is fast paced. We have less and less time for ourselves. We are more exposed to free radicals and stressors. Sometimes, we have no time to be picky of food that we need to eat. And most of the time the food we eat are no longer a healthy food. To ensure that your body is being taken care of, Food Supplement will supplement what maybe missing in our diet and gives our body the chance to function at its fullest. Thereby, helping us look good and feel good inside and out.